President James A. Liguori, CFC Commencement Address
May 17, 2003
It is my honor, once again, to welcome you to Iona
College's annual commencement exercise and to assure you that "this
is indeed a day that the Lord has made. Let us rejoice and be glad."
Each May one of the most common "rites of spring" occurs in
thousands of venues across this country. It is called THE GRADUATION
SPEECH and it is as much a harbinger of the summer as is the appearance
of the robin or leaf blowers! It is a moment that is both anticipated
and dreaded - anticipated because it marks the end of a journey and a
recognition of achievement and dreaded because almost no one wants to
listen to it.
Into this picture walk people like me who are obliged to offer words
of wisdom to a polite but passive audience. Thousands of speakers try
to find a topic that will capture the attention and imagination of their
audiences and few succeed. I, for example, have been giving graduation
addresses for nearly 35 years and have always been aware of the "landmines" present
and the slim chances of success. At best, it seems a yearly losing proposition!
Oh yes, it is true that the most famous of these graduation speakers
are quoted in the newspaper, on TV, in magazines, and on the net. The
vast majority of us, however, labor in relative obscurity!
In fairness to these thousands of speakers, their (our) motivations
are pure. We wish to capture the imaginations of the graduates and inspire
them to greatness. Unfortunately, we very rarely succeed. Graduates and
their families are "dreaming their own dreams." Faculty, staff,
and administrators have heard it all before and are politely in a nonlistening
mode. Many folks are daydreaming about what will come after the ceremony
or about loved ones or about... In the midst of this, the speaker intrudes.
The most that people can hope for is brevity. What an assignment for
a speaker!
This year I have decided to take you into my confidence and let you
know how I determine my topic and my plan of action. Perhaps then you
will at least understand the seriousness of purpose of the exercise.
In the latter part of the winter, I begin to ruminate about the world
in which we live and what I would want to say to our group of graduates
as they leave us to continue their life's journey and to pursue their
dreams.
This is what I saw when I studied the various "landscapes" this
winter. On the international scene, I saw war and threats of war, rampant
terrorism, disease, famine, and a lack of a unified approach to solving
the world's problems. I saw a United Nations body divided by politics
and fear. On the national scene, I saw a people who are, at best, very
unsettled, weary of war, terrorism, a terrible economy, a fractured church,
and a government that is seemingly confused by its future prospects.
On the local scene, I saw a city/county/state that are struggling under
terrible economic pressures, a higher education community that is reeling
from the effects of a bad economy, students who are frightened about
job prospects, and a general feeling of "dis-ease" among all.
Finally, on a personal level, I survived my 60th birthday this year and
I have been granted a six-month sabbatical to recharge my energies and
to refocus on my religious life and commitments.
Over and over again, I came back to one word to describe my response
to all of this. It is the word QUIET. Yes, you heard me correctly, the
word QUIET.
The one thing that there is least of in this frenzied world that we
live in is a time for quiet, rest, reflection, for stillness. We are
constantly bombarded by noise and confusion. Our "motors" never
have an opportunity to go into the idle mode. As a result, we are forever
on the run and almost never take the time to "smell the roses." What
a tragedy!
For centuries, philosophers and theologians have preached the value
of quiet, stillness, meditation, yoga, etc. It is good for the soul and
an excellent remedy for stress, sickness, sleeplessness, dis-ease and
many forms of pain and depression. With all of this evidence, we still
do not form habits of mind that allow us to spend a few minutes a day
in quiet, to still ourselves, to refocus, and to reflect.
I have, therefore, decided to offer you a priceless gift for your graduation
- a SHARED MINUTE OF SILENCE. This may be the only time of quiet that
you experience in this frenetic (and happy) week. If you are a prayerful
person, you may choose to use this minute to thank God for his goodness
to you and your family. If you are not a prayerful person, you may choose
to use this minute to go within yourself to reflect upon your place in
this world, your goodness, and your need for community. In any case,
it will be an opportunity to still yourself. Please join me in observing
a moment of silence.
If you remember nothing else about my speech or about your graduation,
please remember the word QUIET and the need for periods of quiet in everyone's
life. Make it a habit of mind to spend a few minutes a day in quiet reflection.
You will never regret it!
May I take this opportunity on behalf of the entire College community
to congratulate you on your achievement, to wish you Godspeed on your
life's journey, to ask God's blessings upon your family, our beloved
Iona College and finally, upon America. Thank you and good day.
For questions or more information please contact:
Meghan Finn
Public Relations Office
Iona College, 715 North Avenue, New Rochelle, N.Y. 10801
tel: 914 633-2005 fax: 914 637-2711
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